23 March 2026

Domestic Violence and Child Custody: A Difficult Balance to Achieve

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Domestic violence is a major issue in child custody disputes. When a parent has been identified as a perpetrator of domestic violence, the court must determine if and how they can exercise their right to custody or access to their child. This decision is based on several factors, including the child’s safety and well-being, the nature of the violence, and the behavior of the parent involved after separation.

Different Custody Arrangements in the Context of Domestic Violence

When family violence is involved, several scenarios are possible regarding child custody.

Firstly, there is the possibility that the victim parent retains sole custody and that no contact is granted to the perpetrator of domestic violence if the latter poses a significant risk to the child’s safety and development.

Nevertheless, since the aim is normally to maximize contact with each parent, it is also possible for a parent who has committed violence to be granted supervised access rights, particularly through a specialized organization. If the court determines that the parent no longer poses an immediate danger, it may grant limited, unsupervised access.

Domestic violence does not automatically constitute a contraindication to shared custody. The Quebec Court of Appeal has ruled that past domestic violence is not sufficient to refuse shared custody if it does not endanger the child.

Factors Considered by the Court

The court evaluates various important elements to establish the best custody arrangement, including the impact of the violence on the child. If the child has witnessed the violence and suffers from trauma such as fear, anxiety, sleep disorders, etc., this greatly influences the judge’s decision. Additionally, a child may refuse to see their violent parent of their own accord, and their opinion may play a role in the court’s decision, which will assess the child’s maturity and age.

Another factor that may influence the judge’s decision is the persistence of parental conflict after separation. In this sense, if the violence continues after separation in the form of harassment, intimidation, or denigration of the victim parent, this could justify limiting contact between the perpetrator and the child.

On the other hand, the violent parent’s behavior after separation may be evaluated favorably for them, such as in situations where they acknowledge their violent acts and demonstrate a willingness to undergo treatment. Conversely, a lack of remorse or refusal to change their behavior can be an aggravating factor for them.

Finally, the court evaluates the recurrence and severity of violent acts to make its custody decision. To that effect, an isolated act of violence will be assessed differently from repeated violence over a long period. It should also be noted that the use of force under the pretext of education (corporal punishment) is also carefully examined by the court.

Conclusion

Above all, the court seeks to protect the child’s best interests and safety when making a custody decision. While past domestic violence does not systematically disqualify a parent, it must nevertheless be thoroughly analyzed to ensure that the child is not exposed to an environment detrimental to their development. It is therefore essential for parents who are victims of domestic violence to understand the criteria considered by the courts and to seek the assistance of a competent family law attorney.

Written by: Me Isabelle Chatigny

Me Isabelle Chatigny

Partner Lawyer and Family Mediator

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